As Christians, we really have to seek a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, and all will fall into place. I don’t know where you are in your walk with Jesus Christ, but I can’t talk without talking about myself as well.
We have to forsake all things or “die to self” to please Him (Ephesians 4:22-24). Many of us are even afraid to mention the name of Jesus in certain places. However, he said in His word (Bible) that no man comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6). He also said that whosoever will be ashamed of Him (Jesus Christ), He will also be ashamed of them before the Father (Mark 8:38).
So, “seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you” (Matthew 6:33).